I see lot of people ending up with wrong people just because they don't want to be alone, different or left out

What's wrong with people 😌

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I feel sad for the folks who will be with anyone willing because they can't be alone for 5 minutes. There's no growth there. Many times they keep choosing the wrong person, the same person. Being able to be alone with ourselves comfortably, to reflect on what happened when it ends, means you will see what you do/did and stop that behavior.

SW-User

@fernie2 Really well said. If we rebound or use others to fill that void, fill up our time and attentions, we're not growing on our own

fernie2

@SW-User Exactly!!

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@fernie2 Well stated, as usual. Another person [i]cannot[/i] make you something you're not.

fernie2

@uncalled4 YES! We allow so much angst into our lives...as if we were powerless...which we are NOT!