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I wound up unfriending my 'ghosting' friend on Facebook. Haven't really processed it yet... I'll probably cry a little in the morning.

I've known her for 8 years and suddenly she stops talking to me for 9 months. I don't know why. I don't fcking understand humans.

She looked me in the face when I lived with them and said she loved me and worried she wouldn't be around to protect me. Turns out she was the one to hurt me months later, after I opened myself up.

I'm just empty.
SW-User
I know how you feel. My best friend pretty much ditched me one day and I didn't know why. It honestly hurt way more than any breakup ever has. She got new friends who were pretty and thin, and they'd take selfies with each other and post them on social media. I wrote her this super long message saying that I was sorry if I did anything wrong, it was like ten paragraphs long, and I told her I'd always be there if she needed me.

A year or so later, she finally talked to me again and apologised for ditching me, saying she left because a bunch of people were talking shit about me and she didn't want to be a part of that. It was never the same afterwards. We wouldn't sit together and eat lunch or talk unless she needed me to do something for her. Needed me to lend her money for plan b, do her hair and makeup for a party, or to talk shit about her main friend group.

It really fucking hurts. Sorry that it's happening to you. People are assholes.
JupiterDreams · 26-30
@SW-User I'm sorry that happened to you. I can imagine that'd be uncomfortable...
Phire1 · 46-50, F
She might be dealing with something you're not aware of
JupiterDreams · 26-30
@Phire1 Absolutely. But I've been patient... I tried to reach out, apologize if I did anything wrong.

I think I deserved a little more respect from a friend than to just stop talking, like I don't exist :/
Phire1 · 46-50, F
@JupiterDreams I get that. It's happened to me, too
JupiterDreams · 26-30
@Phire1 I'm sorry you know the feeling
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
People just malfunction sometimes. It's not your fault. It's not about you.
JupiterDreams · 26-30
@uncalled4 I know... but still
uncalled4 · 51-55, M
@JupiterDreams I had a close friend never speak to me again because............she didn't like where I sat her at my wedding reception. I'm not making this up.

Used to talk to her on the phone, go to movies and dinners, even vacationed with her once. Just turned her back on me. Ran into her after almost 20 years recently...and she pretended that she didn't even know who I was. So, she wanted to keep that shit up. Fine, she's out of my life forever.

 
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