I Want To Write My Random Thoughts And Feelings

Trust is the most dangerous thing you can give of yourself to someone.
Even the people we love.
But that begs to question, can we love fully without full trust?
Can love exist when people cannot be trusted or is it just a transaction to live with until it loses its function?
Or is it that we do not really understand what love is and jump into the first thing that makes us feel good and call it love? And when it inevitably fails, we believe love to be what is bad. But how can something so good be bad?
The fault seems to be in the way we perceive love to be.
So what really is love?

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SW-User

Yes we can fully love without trusting in them.
Sometimes you know you can't trust in certain people but still love them because it's a feeling that emerges from you regardless of their actions, a mixture of acceptance and care, and knowing that you are vulnerable because you love them .... Despite not being able trust in them, in their words in their actions. Accepting another as they are is love.

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

@SW-User My grandma likes to point this out a lot. We don't always get to choose who we love, "it falls just as easily on a cow pie as a rose" to use her words, but it is love all the same. Care for another and accepting them for who they are.

SW-User

@UndeadPrivateer very eloquently said, I agree completely it can't be chosen... It must be interesting talking to her 😍

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

@SW-User She's been through a lot in her 82 years, lots of wisdom in there. I love her dearly.

SW-User

@UndeadPrivateer how nice that you have her in your life 🌺 embrace her 🥰.