I Want To Write My Random Thoughts And Feelings
One coworker does his own research. I like this about him. He's got an open mind, everlearning, open to unlearning...
One thing he learned was an association trick: if you're on a date and your counterpart's has a warm drink in their hand they'll associate warmth with you. Instinctively this is said to heighten endearment.
He went to get coffee with his now-wife and implemented this trick.
The more I think about it the more I don't like the idea of doing that.
Maybe if I ever feel like scheming so meticulously I'll do it the other way around: get them holding something cold. If they're still interested after that... especially in the middle of this trick gone haywire-- ice fishing with light layers, no gloves, and no compensating penguins...
maybe they're actually interested in the broken puzzle hiding inside my skeleton.
One thing he learned was an association trick: if you're on a date and your counterpart's has a warm drink in their hand they'll associate warmth with you. Instinctively this is said to heighten endearment.
He went to get coffee with his now-wife and implemented this trick.
The more I think about it the more I don't like the idea of doing that.
Maybe if I ever feel like scheming so meticulously I'll do it the other way around: get them holding something cold. If they're still interested after that... especially in the middle of this trick gone haywire-- ice fishing with light layers, no gloves, and no compensating penguins...
maybe they're actually interested in the broken puzzle hiding inside my skeleton.
