How well do you know that you're getting used again? I have this “friend” who only texts me whe...

GunFinger · F Pinned Comment

It was probably a heads up.😐

Sutten · 36-40, F

I can understand where you are coming from. I would feel the same if keeping in touch only happened under those conditions. It's great to help others where you can, but once you notice a pattern like this its normal for it to make you feel this way.

Teslin · M

My personal opinion, if you enjoy each others company, no harm no foul.
But, they should always confirm that you will be home first, and, it is ok they come over just incase you are in the the middle of something.

4meAndyou · F

I used to have a former sister-in-law who would only call me when she needed something. Kind of sucky, IMO. BUT...she needs this tiny bit of help, doesn't she? And it won't really hurt you to allow her to get her groceries at your house.

You can just KNOW she is using you, and allow it, but you don't have to pretend to be her friend.

being · 36-40, F

As long as she's pleasant, you can have a "grocery friend".. But apparently you don't like them that much 🤭

Caleidoscope · F

While I agree there has to be an interest of some sort to keep a friendship alive,in this case it has maxed out .It can never go beyond that grocery delivery

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Nothing wrong with doing her a favour that cost you nothing. Friendship does that.

Harmonium1923 · 56-60, M

There must be a compromise here. Perhaps one involving extra treats ordered from the store. 🍷 🧁

lisasweety · F

if only 1 side is putting all the effort in2 the relationship then yea I think it's pretty obvious that ure either their bkup friends or they're straight up using u👀👀👀

tobynshorty · 51-55, F

I dont like that kind of friend🫤

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