Update from last night's post
So last night, I posted that my wife hit me, which I've now deleted. This update is mainly for those who caught it. I was hysterical when I posted that and it was kinda me overexaggerating.
Last night, my wife and I got into a fight over something that ended up being a misunderstanding. She was in our bedroom listening to music while I was in the living room calling out to her for something, but she wasn't responding. I even texted her, asking if she was ignoring me, which she didn't see. She was so preoccupied with her music, she just didn't hear or notice and wasn't purposefully ignoring me. I got angry, thinking she was, which she has done before and it just set me off. I went into the room to confront her about it.
I was so mad, I got up in her face, so she shoved me and I tripped backward and got hurt. She told me she thought I was going to hit her. I wasn't. Even if I wanted to, she's much stronger. That would be incredibly stupid of me. But I cannot blame her for thinking I was, considering I was coming at her all pissed and with an aggressive posture. She fairly defended herself by shoving me back and not actually hitting me, like I had said.
All this over a simple misunderstanding. Not to be comical, but we're also both on the rag, so that probably played into our heightened emotions. It's my fault. I overreacted badly rather than simply asking if she was ignoring me and then started acting like an awful bitch about it. I've apologized to her, she apologized too and we've made up. But there are clearly a lot issues that need to be worked out and after last night, I'm thinking we're both gonna start doing that.
Apologies to those who caught that post and might've become worried about me. I'm usually bit more level-headed, but last night, I wasn't and went and made a big deal over nothing. I'm sorry about that.
Last night, my wife and I got into a fight over something that ended up being a misunderstanding. She was in our bedroom listening to music while I was in the living room calling out to her for something, but she wasn't responding. I even texted her, asking if she was ignoring me, which she didn't see. She was so preoccupied with her music, she just didn't hear or notice and wasn't purposefully ignoring me. I got angry, thinking she was, which she has done before and it just set me off. I went into the room to confront her about it.
I was so mad, I got up in her face, so she shoved me and I tripped backward and got hurt. She told me she thought I was going to hit her. I wasn't. Even if I wanted to, she's much stronger. That would be incredibly stupid of me. But I cannot blame her for thinking I was, considering I was coming at her all pissed and with an aggressive posture. She fairly defended herself by shoving me back and not actually hitting me, like I had said.
All this over a simple misunderstanding. Not to be comical, but we're also both on the rag, so that probably played into our heightened emotions. It's my fault. I overreacted badly rather than simply asking if she was ignoring me and then started acting like an awful bitch about it. I've apologized to her, she apologized too and we've made up. But there are clearly a lot issues that need to be worked out and after last night, I'm thinking we're both gonna start doing that.
Apologies to those who caught that post and might've become worried about me. I'm usually bit more level-headed, but last night, I wasn't and went and made a big deal over nothing. I'm sorry about that.
