I've been single so long that I'm sending myself mixed messages..

Like I want a relationship but I really don't want a relationship..

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Yep that's not uncommon in men your age... most have been there, been married or long term relationships, it ended, they are disillusioned and/or hurt and don't ever want to risk that again... and yet, the alternatives aren't as realistic as they'd hope...