Why I can't stop myself from pleasing others to my own detriment 😭

Wow your like the perfect person to latch onto for best comments.

Can I have best comment?

Very interesting

Because you are one of those rare breed of people 'selfless'

skewed parent/offspring dynamics creating trauma

My immediate thought is that you think others are pleased by you putting yourself thru that detriment. Secondly, such a thing can be an addiction to some.

Because I told you to do so. Now stop doing that.

You'll learn eventually.

Your a caring person . It’s a good thing 🤗

i could use a coffee... just sayin.. 😇

How?