I Have Something to Say

[c=#359E00]Another friend (woman) was left SW because annoyed by guy[/c] 😕

[c=#359E00]This is why i always promote to never talk with guys in PM unless :[/c]
[c=#359E00]1. You've been interacted with the guy many times before in QA or story, and know him very well[/c]
[c=#359E00]2. Never reply to guy with less than minimum 1000 views and 300 posts, no matter how long they've been here[/c]

[c=#359E00]Other than that they are only aiming for cheap romance or wanting to see your boobs. No reply to guys no matter how polite or nice they sounds. Protect yourself[/c]

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Not all men are that way.

YukikoAmagi

@samueltyler2 [c=#359E00]i never say all men. I did give qualification men that worth to given the chance[/c]

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@YukikoAmagi but you said you tell women to "never talk to guys" but do then list some exceptions, but, the never is still there.

YukikoAmagi

@samueltyler2 [c=#359E00]i'm not say it directly but if you go by logic you will understand[/c]

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@samueltyler2 Sam-- her decision tree here is totally valid and has been my policy for years.

Guys who only seek to interact in private don't get the time of day from me. But guys with a significant public presence here who have reached out to me on my stories and chatted in public have no problem getting responses from me in private. This is all she's saying.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@sarabee1995 I have no problem with her using a personal approach. I dislike such terms as never, always, etc., since they leave little room. Yes, she did add some qualifiers, but he basic premise was negative. That is all inresponded to. I like to be positive.

TexChik · F

@sarabee1995 that’s the only way I do it.

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@samueltyler2 Well when I get a PM from a guy I don't know and who has very little of a public presence here, I [b] NEVER[/b] engage in chat. 🤷‍♀️

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@TexChik I think most of us have very similar policies here, Tex. The "PM ONLY" guys are the problem. (Note: this is not you, Sam)

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@sarabee1995 thanks.

helenS · 36-40, F

@samueltyler2 You are a very nice man and you are always welcome.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@helenS thanks, I hope I don't ever offend anyone.