I Have Something to Say

She says I should be more selfish because I'm so harsh on myself.
He says I should be more selfless because it's unfair to everyone else.

Can I just tell everyone that I'm going and then just disappear forever? I'll be selfish and abandon everyone and just tell them I need to go away, so it's not unfair since I've told them that I need some alone time. They don't need to know that I'm never coming back. :D It's fine.