I Have Something to Say

Talking to one of my female friends here via pm today got me thinking. I know of people who have and have myself dated people from EP but maybe we all should be more careful. We get to know people here but we don't know...or I'm feeling spooked. Someone popped up on another social media site as a possible connection because they are in my phone contacts.

Also,for the love of God men, nothing we post should be taken as an invitation or solicitation, unless we explicitly say so. The sheer number of unsolicited messages we get here is ridiculous. Stop.

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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

I agree with this wholeheartedly. Ep was a very different animal and yes, I dated a man from EP and met many others for coffee and/or lunches. I am sitting on over 400 unanswered messages right now and I cleaned it out Monday. Let's be careful out there ladies.

abooklover · 56-60, F

@Fungirlmmm That's wild. You're nicer than me.

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@abooklover I travel for work so I have friends all over the world. We always met in public. I have a little different situation though because I gained a stalker on EP. To counteract his power I told everyone in my real life about my blog and my EP account. So although I use a screenname my family and close friends know I am fungirlmmm. My real life guy has a profile here and knows I am here as well. I don't keep it secret from my real life peeps. So it is a little different for me.

abooklover · 56-60, F

@Fungirlmmm I heard about your stalker on EP. I understand. I would not be able to keep up with that many msgs is what I meant.

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

@abooklover I knew what you meant. :) Things are overwhelming at times.