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Talking to one of my female friends here via pm today got me thinking. I know of people who have and have myself dated people from EP but maybe we all should be more careful. We get to know people here but we don't know...or I'm feeling spooked. Someone popped up on another social media site as a possible connection because they are in my phone contacts.

Also,for the love of God men, nothing we post should be taken as an invitation or solicitation, unless we explicitly say so. The sheer number of unsolicited messages we get here is ridiculous. Stop.
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@seeandhear you're welcome. Sorry I had a typo on favorite. I can normally spell.
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
Just because we have discussions here doesn't mean we want to go any further with the relationship.
abooklover · 56-60, F
@SweetMae darn right Mae.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
Yup.. all very true.. and even for those who aren't looking to date they still get inundated with solicitations.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I agree with this wholeheartedly. Ep was a very different animal and yes, I dated a man from EP and met many others for coffee and/or lunches. I am sitting on over 400 unanswered messages right now and I cleaned it out Monday. Let's be careful out there ladies.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@abooklover I travel for work so I have friends all over the world. We always met in public. I have a little different situation though because I gained a stalker on EP. To counteract his power I told everyone in my real life about my blog and my EP account. So although I use a screenname my family and close friends know I am fungirlmmm. My real life guy has a profile here and knows I am here as well. I don't keep it secret from my real life peeps. So it is a little different for me.
abooklover · 56-60, F
@Fungirlmmm I heard about your stalker on EP. I understand. I would not be able to keep up with that many msgs is what I meant.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@abooklover I knew what you meant. :) Things are overwhelming at times.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I made good friends on EP, and I met them in "real" life, but I was also spooked by some stalkers and scary people I met there. It hasn't been as bad for me here so far. The people I've met seem pretty good, and there are a couple I hope to meet in person some day. You have to be careful online, though, here or on other sites.
abooklover · 56-60, F
@ChampagneOnIce Absolutely!
ReneeT · 61-69, F
I have made a few friends from EP that I am still in contact with through email. I've found that you can meet some really nice people, bot male and female, that talking is a great past time
abooklover · 56-60, F
@ReneeT I don't disagree.
roccoman · 56-60, M
about the plethora of msgs. I never knew this, I will never send another msg.
Have meet someone from EP we chatted exchange photos , phone calls and cam a few times over 4 months , ended up meeting going out for dinner and drinks had a lovely night , but some people and I will admit at times guys take things as an open invitation and hide behind phoney ids , don't let it put you off , just take things at your own pace , be safe be happy
mrmoose · 70-79, M
i met 3 ladies from ep, none from here
abooklover · 56-60, F
@mrmoose hope it went well
mrmoose · 70-79, M
@abooklover 2 of the 3 were very nice, the third was ok
Noble · 56-60, M
Preach!!! 👍🏼
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Lonely people get desperate.
SW-User
Scary in and of itself to see this and EP as actual dating venues.
abooklover · 56-60, F
@SW-User lots of people have dated someone from EP there were even marriages.
SW-User
@abooklover Miracles do happen i guess, ....:)
Lilnonames · F
How true that is thanks for an honest post
abooklover · 56-60, F
@Lilnonames you're welcome

 
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