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Can someone tell me how to get over this guy? It's been 2 years, maybe more than that since i met him(Let's call him E). I met him for 5-10 minutes at the most. I don't know much about him other than through his face book posts. For 2 years, i secretly liked him(I don't even know why). I wasn't able to date anyone or move on because of this guy. I met a guy J once in a bar. He is a nice guy.He asked me out and i rejected him because I hopelessly like this guy E. E got engaged and posted a picture of him and his girlfriend. I still liked him as a friend. A month ago i removed E from my face book because he is too much of a distraction. Last night, on newyear's eve I went to bar again. I met this another guy Ever. He is calm and composed. After a small chat, he left me for few minutes that's when I remembered this E guy(we barely met and he left within 5 minutes). I went to restroom and cried. I came back and Ever guy left already. I messaged this E on face book, saying I still like him(I was too drunk).

Can someone tell how to move on. I barely know him and don't know why i like him so much.
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You don’t like him....you like the idea of him.
Sireeshak · 41-45, F
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 what idea? please explain in detail
You don’t know him....never dated him....only met him once....read his posts on Facebook. You like what you have created in your mind about him. Lol@Sireeshak
Sireeshak · 41-45, F
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 yeah.. but he is a good guy maybe that's one reason i like the 'idea' about him.
How do you even know he is a good guy? You don’t know him. You have built up in your head that he is this great guy...when he might very well be the opposite. @Sireeshak
DreamCoCreators · 36-40, M
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 exactly what I'm trying to say too.
Sireeshak · 41-45, F
@MissMollyCharlotte0702 Well he was courteous. maybe you are right, we are often nice to people we just met.