Let's say you have 4k in savings... [I Ramble]

And you're going to use it to move away to another country and stay with someone while you get your life together.

But a relative knows you have that amount and they want to borrow it to buy their own stuff/pay bills.

Are you obligated to give it to them? Or is it okay to say, "No, that's my savings to move with."

* This is a serious question btw... 😥

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tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F

The money is yours,I would advice not lending it to a relative.They ran up the dept it is their job to pay not yours.The chance of seeing the money again is very small if you loan it to someone that is financially irresponsible.There is a reason they are in debt.You can be sure you will end up on non speaking terms and out of pocket when the relative does not return your money.

JupiterDreams · 31-35

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