I Have a Question

So I was just talking with my friend that's a guy. We were talking about his dating life and he was saying how he wants a girl that's younger than him...like in her 20s. He's in his 50s. Well okay nothing wrong with liking younger women. Like more power to you.

So then he told me he wants to marry and have kids with this younger girl. I said okay but also told him that he's most likely going to find that in someone who's older...like 30+. He got pissed because I said that.

So let me ask you guys this: Isn't he MOST LIKELY (key word) to find someone who's older that wants the things he wants? A family, marriage, maturity. It's very rare that a 20 something year old wants all of that responsibility. They wanna have fun. Experience life. Not be tied down.

CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M

There are people of both genders who are attracted to the idea of skipping out all the work in life and marrying someone who is older and has their life, finances and career in order.

Think of it like moving into a fully furnished house, I wouldn't want to, I like having my own personal touches everywhere, but it appeals to other people.