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I Have a Question

So I was just talking with my friend that's a guy. We were talking about his dating life and he was saying how he wants a girl that's younger than him...like in her 20s. He's in his 50s. Well okay nothing wrong with liking younger women. Like more power to you.

So then he told me he wants to marry and have kids with this younger girl. I said okay but also told him that he's most likely going to find that in someone who's older...like 30+. He got pissed because I said that.

So let me ask you guys this: Isn't he MOST LIKELY (key word) to find someone who's older that wants the things he wants? A family, marriage, maturity. It's very rare that a 20 something year old wants all of that responsibility. They wanna have fun. Experience life. Not be tied down.
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frostyflower · 36-40, F
Yes, especially these days, most women want a career and a few years of marriage before even considering having kids. My husband is only 6 years older than me, and his clock was ticking way too early. It used to be a big fight for us every few months. I said I wasn't ready yet, and he always took it as me never wanting kids. Now we have one awesome little girl and we don't fight about it anymore, but we were married 7 years before I was willing to try.