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I Have a Question

there is this guy on fb ive been talking to for a while, he wants to fly my mom & i out too meet him or he is willing to visit, every time i ask too see his pic he refuses to show it and blames his phone, i know its all red flags but should i trust him enough to talk to him still ? even if he does visit should i go visit him with friends ? chances are he mightn't even if he lives in the next town, i doubt, but should i continue talking to him ?
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Red flags are red for a reason. So they are easier to spot. They should not be ignored.
I'm not going to lie. There's a very high possibility you'll die if you go to meet this guy. I don't know why all that rhymed.
Well, that escalated quickly.
cameron · 26-30, M
woah jheeze monday night raw in the comment section xD
NeonCandy · 26-30, F
Just nope out of there
Sure go ahead.. if you plan on never coming back.
Ynotjenn · F
Run.
For real
:)
Basic guides for meeting people that you met online in real life:
Bring a weapon.
Know how to use the weapon.
Prepare to call the cops, if necessary.
Never let them know your location, always make it as far away from your house as possible.
spandexblue · 36-40, M
I wish I was as smart as you are when I was your age. You are exactly right. You have a good head on your shoulders. Listen to yourself. Talking to him may cause you to talk yourself out of your initial thoughts though.
Most likely not for the best. Has he spoken to you at least? Sent a video clip that he made? Anything...? If not, he's probably not who he says he is. I could get if he didn't send a picture to you, but coming to see and not sending a picture seems rather odd. Please don't give any of your personal information to him, some people on the internet are very malicious. I just can't imagine the things that are going trough his head now if he was... Has he send anything odd to you? Like something that made you creeped out, or just screamed "stranger danger"?
Madelenie · 26-30, F
You can still talk to him, but go out? Don't
cameron · 26-30, M
doesn't sound legit to me
Ivana · F
i suggest u keep ur booty home cause im in the same boat & im older & not gonna go anywhere, talk to him but dont send pix or have it go further
whateverhappens · 26-30, F
SsmoothieSwe've been talking for a year
NakedLezzie · 26-30, F
If he won't send a picture, he is hiding something. If it was a technical problem, then he can have a friend take a pic and email him, then he can email it from his computer. It's not that complicated, unless you're 50 years old.
marvingaye · 61-69, M
What does your mom say?
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whateverhappens · 26-30, F
marvingaye she didnt take me serious but either way she wouldn't go anywhere for free
SoulAsylum · 36-40, M
It doesn't seem like a good idea.
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Ivana · F
Rocketman86 im a poor girl too cause i was all for it few months ago but then i realized these shitts it for realz it can happen to you
@whateverhappens, in only situations like these it's picture or it never happened.
Apparentlyican@ I was trying to remain positive. Didn't want to frighten the poor girl.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
How long do you mean by talking for a while?
marvingaye · 61-69, M
How old is he supposed to be? And how old are you?
pearllederman · 61-69, F
i wouldnt see him if he cant even show you his picture
Yes! Listen to nakedlezzie. She knows a thing or two about catfish
Ivana · F
kinda in the same situation weirdly exact same tho lol just its on here, but damn making me worry now if its the same guy lolllz
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
In a word? Predator. Next question?
Ivana · F
rocketman86 orrrr alive but in sex trafficking or some messed up shit like thaat
No picy, no ticky... even a broken phone can be fixed... but never a moron.
marvingaye · 61-69, M
@Stereoguy Feel free to go fuck yourself. How would I know how old she is - maybe that's why I asked? You seem awfully familiar with the whole deal. Was I stepping on your turf you sanctimonious asshole? Before you post your fantastical scenario that you certainly 'came up with' somewhere , why don't you go back and re-read my questions, you sick fuck.

For some reason unknown or understood by me, you assume that someone who won't show her 'his' pic, is a man who can afford to fly her and her mother somewhere. Believe it or not, Mr Gullible, you'll often get more accomplished by asking questions than spewing your opinion. You might try it sometime. Peace.
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