I do feel better with some of your kind reactions. No I'm not telling where my question comes from but I know I'm human indeed and humans make mistakes, okay....I won't punish myself ;-) thx peeps xxx

I know from experience when your away from that certin person you forget about all thr negative things ofcourse until you back with them or someone just like them.
.yea your human

@Lizabee: very smart reply.

Said that, KellyBear, you don't have to punish yourself, only see the pattern and learn. Humans are like this.

As smart as we think we are...humans have blind spots... emotional and otherwise that block rational thought .

Humans are imperfect and we don’t always pay attention to what we do, say, or think. We make the same mistake again because we forgot how to correct the first time we made it.

Most of mine are men.... That's all I gotta say about that 😒 and don't worry. Mistakes are just that. Not many are so important they can't be righted or dealt with over time.

Oh were we talking marriages? Yeah I'm trying to end my 3rd now... I know it's a lot of strikes against me going out looking for love again one day soon... I will take a lot of understanding.

I don't make mistakes. I date them. Apparently give them two or three or a thousand chances. So yeah, I'm no longer allowed to pick my own boyfriend!

Yes. It's possible to make the same mistake more then once. Took me 2 times to learn to not do push-ups randomly at midnight.

Don't feel too bad, I've made quite a few more then that lol 😝 it happens.

We get even wiser then before!

Ok dear i wont ask but im always here to just listen

Because hope springs eternal.

The second time is always a choice.

@ daddybair: this is my mistake too.

@ KellyBear: it's not easy to give an opinion when we unknown the situation so I think we talk in a very general sense. But, it's true that a mistake has place for a reason, to learn something from it. Only that some times, human nature is pig-headed and try to ignore a mistake as belonging to us. Denial, it has been said before.

Because humans have feelings

@Lizabee: it was no choice lol, but I was distracted

Don't feel bad... I'm on my third...

@callme: my mistake is not a mistake involving men lol, that's already something

Twice isn't much.

Of course.

Far too easily.

humanity

@daddybair: it's not about a person at all, it's about a situation I got myself in, no don't ask lol

everyone makes mistakes no one is perfect, if the person is perfect then they are fake

I ask myself that all the time. Get off your back.You are only human!