I Have a Question

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Do you think attitudes to sex are intrinsically different in straight men and women, because in essence men are physically entering another person, whereas women are allowing another person to enter their body?

My feeling is that despite it being consensual, it must be so much more difficult to let your guard down and allow someone literally inside you as a woman. As a (pretty crap) metaphor, you would be comfortable poking someone in the ear, but maybe not so relaxed if someones finger was in yours.

Spoiler alert. I know the answers to this question are going to go horribly, controversially wrong but I'd prefer it if they didn't...

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GlitzandGlamber · 26-30, F

Yessir! I'm with Dream. I feel it is drastically different, especially the comfort level. I'd imagine at least! I've never been a man and never will be, so I of course can't say for absolute surety what it's like for them, but I do feel it is a lot more difficult and anxiety provoking to be a woman and have to let your guard down and trust someone to let them insert their foreign objects inside you lol. I find your ear metaphor extremely accurate! Interesting question! :)