Wondering?

If he thinks you're worth it he'll wait. If he can't wait then you know your answer

If he's really in love with you, he will.

That's hard to guess in this day and age where sex is everywhere. I feel like he should respect your choices. If he loves you he will try to wait, of course this will be a huge challenge to your relationship. One you should be ready to face together.

It depends on his values. Most people, from what I have seen, don't want to wait until marriage anymore which is probably because society is totally different than what it was in the past. He will either; decide to respect your decision and stay with you, try to pressure you into sex (which would be horrible), leave you but respect that you want to wait or he will not understand it and leave you. Nobody on this website can predict what your boyfriend will do (or whether or not you will change your mind for that matter) as we don't know you or him on a personal level. My advice would be to tell him yourself and if you are nervous- plan how you will say it before hand. If he wont accept waiting until marriage with you and tries to persuade you to do something you don't want to do then the best option would be to leave him. But I would hope that he would want to stay with you and wait until marriage. I hope that he either will wait for you or you will find someone else who would be willing to wait until marriage. I am also considering waiting until marriage too so I can see how it can be hard to find a guy who would be willing to wait.

I wish you the best! :)

The sexual attitudes you see expressed on websites like this are not exactly a statistically valid random sample of all popular opinion. My wife and I waited for marriage. There are plenty of men who would wait. And if this is an important value for you, a man who would begrudge you for this is probably not the right man for you. You are entitled to stand your ground.

he should if he cared about you,and how you feel,i stayed with my wife when she said she wanted to wait,

Why is it called disrespect of her choices if he doesn't stay? It seems to me that if he wants something different and walks away he's saying that he respects her choice, just isn't going to continue wasting either of their time.

If he loves you he'll stay

if he is a real man he will stay

the infamous starrykiss

Disrespecting her choices would be for him to stay with her and try to persuade and sway her ideology.

I can only vote for one answer and that's inconvenient. I picked 1, 2 and 4

If he's not serious about you he will leave. That's a true test of love.

I hope he would leave. It ain't that important and it ain't worth the wait.

No. Why? Because it's 2016, he's between the ages of 18 & death, and he's a man.

It's called self control.

He might suggest a short engagement.

nah.... id leave ya

You should be alright if you find someone who feels the same.

I'm guessing no, but what do I know~

none of these answers!

its called boredom

And?

no

If you are as gorgeous as your avi idk how he could stand it :P

lifeasciara I hope he does for you surely it is no big deal sex is not the bee all and end all is it if he is not happy to wait till you are married and does do a bunk I think he is a very shallow and selfish man

Libido isn't something you can ignore, thereby the options you'd leave him with are to either cheat on you, or to just be miserable......

Stops you from becoming a single mum i surpose😊

I think in todays world you are asking quite a lot from some one else,how long do you intend to wait untill you get married.😊

It really doesn't matter. If he doesn't fully sign on with this decision, he'll be labeled an asshole.