Would there be a bigger benefit to the children to?

VioletRayne · 2016-06-12T16:13:52-04:00

I Have a Question - Would there be a bigger benefit to the children to? If you are miserable in your marriage, Do... (70 replies).

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Stay in a dysfunctional but whole home

Live in two happy seperate households

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If you are miserable in your marriage, Do you think its better to keep the home together for the children, or leave and possibly find happiness? Do you feel it would be better for the children to stay and watch each of you suffer in silence or watch each of you seperately pursue happiness.

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LJ123 · 46-50, F

It depends on the circumstances. If there is violence and/or abuse involved, JUST GET OUT. But I think too many people treat marriage as one more disposable thing. If it doesnt work, oh well, we'll just get divorced. No one wants to put in the work and the commitment. Marriage is not and has never been easy. But some things are worth the effort.