[c=#4C0073]He's a boy. It's what they do. Hell I wouldnt be mad if I found my daughter with GQ magazine or a fireman's calendar ( is it sad that I don't know the female equivalent to sports illustrated?). I'd just make sure they know there's a time and place for everything and how to make smart decisions about their sexual encounters. I would never try to close my children off to sexuality. Sexuality is natural and hiding it only makes it more intriguing and makes them less prepared to deal with whatever the world will throw at them. I have every faith that my children will be amazing people that make amazing life choices. [/c]
I also remember a teen boy neighbor who went to collect the mail and sat down in a lawn chair with a Sears catalog and went to the women's lingerie section and looked at all the women in bras and panties....this was in the early-60's when I was a young child, I asked him why he was looking at women's clothes.
I remember in Junior High School the boys were getting really interested in National Geographic magazines in the school library, so I had to have a look to see what was so interesting. I think the 12-year old boy who would look at those magazines are curious about females or something.
Think it is pretty normal for a boy to be taking interest in the opposite sex besides which he has probably seen many girls or women in a bikini or swimsuit already at that age
Today's computers open up a whole new world for youngsters unless the online activities are monitored by parents. If they are curious, they'll just wait until your back is turned.
I'd tell him to find his ideal woman there and strive to be good enough in life to get to know some one that beautiful, be successful enough to impress and marry her.
I wouldn't care. Let him discover himself if he wants to. I would rather he come to me so I can give him the proper information, rather than he get confused.