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Are you nicer when you aren't around toxic people ?

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BillyMack · 46-50, M
WillaKissing · 61-69, M
Well, absolutely I am. I think everyone is nicer when the acidic/toxic folk are not around us.
Adrift · 61-69, F
Yes, I feel so much better when Im not around a toxic people.
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
I don't surround myself with toxic people, so I would say yes.
I’m nicer when I’m not around people. Period. Actually, I’m absolutely a delight.
Munumbis · 46-50, M
I think everyone is.
@Munumbis not always
Some thrive off of it
Ontheroad · M
I must admit I have an automated, highly sensitive hot button that immediately engages when around a-holes, the willfully ignorant and toxic people.

Other than that, I'm super easy to get along with and quite nice.
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
Toxic people raise my hackles. They are so stressing to be around. I just want a peaceful life without all of their negativity.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
I'm never nice.
RebelRaven · 51-55, F
Good question, I still lean on my coping mechanisms and tread lightly for the most part. Or I call them out. 😕
Prince0217 · M
Yes. I am.

I can't always control who is around me. Yet still, I keep my fun vibe and emotional structure.
Definitely. So I try to avoid them.
I think it’s easier to be nice when around well balanced, non toxic people. While I try to be nice to everyone, I refuse to allow total strangers on the internet take cheap shots at me, and me not react some kind of way. Usually I just block them out of my site and sometimes giving them a few choice words on the way out. I don’t stand there offline and allow people to take digs at me so why should I online? Yes, I’m a blocker, not one of those people that somehow think NEVER blocking is some kind of virtue. 🥴
@Unefilletrescurieuse agreed lol those people who never block want an award or something
@cherny right!
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
I don't know anymore
@EldritchFox I usually know by what my nervous system tells me
Iwillwait · M
Yes. I lean into toxic people more with encouragement but eventually I will withdraw from interacting which can be received as less kind.
Nicer might not be the best word but definitlely more relaxed and not on edge.
No, I try to stay myself.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
I don't like drama or toxic people so I try and avoid them
DavidBianchet2 · 56-60, M
not necessarily nicer, but definitely less talkative.

 
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