Is the need to talk things through and work out an agreement/compromise during conflict a toxic trait?

Like if I see both sides, is it inappropriate to state my perspective? Is it wrong to include that someone's behavior hurts my feelings? Is it just in my head that being honest and open is fair?

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Harmonium1923 · 56-60, M

Usually a healthy approach with reasonable people of good conscience. But there can also be value in just letting things go. That’s a valid choice. And sometimes ignoring the small or medium stuff can build more credibility when talking about bigger things.