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What are some things you have stopped doing in recent years and why?

I've stopped coloring my hair, getting salon manicures, eating any pre-prepared foods, wearing high heels, purchasing products and/or food or storing them in plastic containers, caring what anyone else thinks, being open, accepting people at face value. Mostly all for my general health and happiness.

And you?
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HumanEarth · F
Stop eating fast food starting somewhere in middle 1970s, (that's when they switched everything to cheaper high fructose corn syrup.) That's stuff nearly killed me. That's when we found I have allergies to it. So no more cheap foods

Gave up cooking in aluminum pans decades ago and use only cast iron.

Won't buy a cellphone, don't like the idea of them. Bring back payphones

Gave up Postum hot drink mix since they stop making it, so now I make own from scratch and it's super simple to make and I make about 25 - 50 pounds at time and it last all year.

Ingredients for Homemade Postum

A handful of barley grains, A handful of wheat grains and you can use optional grains (like a few kernels of corn or rye or other grains for different flavors, if desired)

First go buy or grow your grains. Then rinse the grains:

Take the handfuls of barley and wheat. Run them under cool water, got to wash away the dirt. They are never clean enough.

Now it's time for roasting:

Preheat your oven to a hot setting, about the heat of a good fire. We use wood cooking stove to. We try our best to live life somewhat like 1800s. It's hard to do, when government is always attack people like us.

Now you want to spread the grains out on a pan, giving them space to spread.

Place them in the oven for a while—about the time it takes to read a chapter of your favorite book. Keep an eye on them; you want them deep brown, like roasted chestnuts, not scorched.

Then we start the grinding step:

Once they’re out and cooled to a gentle warmth, take to your grinder—a mortar and pestle will do, or an old grinder if you have one. Both work well, just don't use an electric one. Too messy and noisy

Just crush them down until they turn to fine powder. You want it to feel like soft flour beneath your fingers.

Now it's brew time:

Boil some water in a kettle

Scoop a generous spoonful of your ground grains and add it to the boiling water, stirring it well like you’re mixing in good tidings.

Let it steep a while—about the time it takes to tell a good story.

We have to strain and servenow:

So hen ready, strain it through a cloth or fine sieve, letting the rich liquid pass through while catching the remnants.

Just pour it into your favorite cup

Here is where you can add extra finishing touches to the drink:

You can add a splash of milk or a spoonful of sugar, honey, dandelion jelly or whatever. Stir gently, and enjoy this hearty brew

Now you to can take part to relish in your homemade Postum, that you made with care and a touch of old-world charm!

I learned this from my Mennonite/Amish neighbors decades ago
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mossyboots · 51-55, F
Impulse buying.
Being harsh on myself. I used to blame myself for mistakes and feel too much upset.
Going for nice long walks, not something I like to do on my own now since my husband died..
Spending time with negative people.
Always saying yes.
Arguing with my sister who thinks she is so much better than me.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@mossyboots Sounds like you are making positive changes. Sorry for your loss of your husband.
mossyboots · 51-55, F
@LadyBronte Thank you.
Likestoenjoylife · 51-55, M
Stopped worrying what people think of me accept I am not perfect but still trying to improve!
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Likestoenjoylife Some of the best things we can do for ourselves!
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Luckily enough I was never into the high heels 😊
Never died as it went grey, it's nearly white
It's called getting wiser as you get older 👍
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@antonioioio Well, thank goodness for that! 😆 Hopefully Ixm getting wiser because I'm certain I have the older part down pat!
stayfickle · 26-30, F
I stop letting just “any” other people into my life.
Getting quite picky with people I interact with.
And I stop self-pity (just this year).
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@stayfickle I think that is wise. Make those habits as early as possible!
I haven't dyed my hair in years. I don't buy in bulk ...I don't have cable tv. I don't have a land line .I'm more on guard than I've been in recent years .
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@pituitarypendulum I get it. I stopped dying my hair about 5 years ago. I do still buy in bulk though. And being on guard, that is definitely something that will be with me the rest of my life now.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
There’s something to be said for being friends so long that our hair colors have changed. 😊
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Adogslife Smiles. True!
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I've stopped investing in people emotionally.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@ScreamingFox Yes, here too. It is too difficult when you find out the one you believed in, thought nothing of you in return. 🤷🏼‍♀
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
Playing nice in the face of manipulation and disrespect with a couple people .. their behavior determines which version of me they get.
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@BrandNewMan Yes! Exactly. Be respectful and play nice with me and you'll get the same in return. Anything else and all bets of me being kind are off. I've accepted far too much manipulation and outright lying in my lifetime. I refuse to do so anymore.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
Stopped talking to my mother. Best thing I could ever do for me and my family
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Cigarguy I am glad you're finding it to be a good thing for you and your family. I know there are mothers who are less than stellar out there to say the least, I'm always sorry to hear when the mother relationship is broken. Things like that make life more difficult.
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
Eating sweet things and drinking alcohol.

I learned I had diabetes!
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@JoyfulSilence Good for you. I have seen previously undiagnosed diabetics with blood sugars that are completely through the roof! Take care, and keep putting in the work. You'll feel better!
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
@JoyfulSilence Ozempic works. Hope your insurance cooperates. Otherwise $1100 a month is rough.
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
@Crazywaterspring

My copay is only $25.
Wiseacre · F
I stopped brushing my teeth while showering…not a time saver!
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Wiseacre Funny. I would have thought it would be.
Dressing for others
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@0uijaFinger Yeah. Me either.
valentinesdaywife · 41-45, F
Stopped engaging other family members in political type fueds
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@valentinesdaywife Agree. Heated discussions regarding politics and religion both, can destroy relationships.

 
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