I had a bad ex boyfriend. I went to live with him and his father not knowing anything about him. And my ex lied to me just so I would give him a ride up there which was 10 hours away from my family.
He was a hoarder. I recognize that there's levels of hoarding. There's the benevolent kind where it's just mostly stuff, that don't really bother me. And I recognize that it could be from trauma.
But when I got to his father's house, it was really bad. like biohazard bad.
There was a big part of the wall that wasn't there. It had collapsed or something. Rats would climb over where I was sleeping. The dishes and the microwave were covered in mold and there were sht rags in the sink. Also one time his father sprayed raid like it was perfume, something was physically wrong with him.
He would have these weird outbursts that kinda seemed almost like dementia and later after I had broke it off with this person, his father ended up going for heart surgery because he had no b12 in him and it dissolved his heart muscles and that affected his mental state as well.
And I spent about three weeks to a month in that house because at the time I was nearly 10 hours away from my family so I couldn't figure out how to come back.
I actually got some money and then lied about how much money I had to my ex boyfriend at the time so I could go to a hotel and then I left.
