If someone were to own up to their bad behavior that hurt you, would it help you put the past behind and move on?

Or would it seem like just another lame attempt to get back into your good graces so they could hurt you again?

Hmmm.... Thoughts?

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Adogslife · 61-69, M

Only you know how much it hurt. Given the little I know, my advise would be avoidance at all cost. I’d even try to expunge pleasant thoughts.

LadyBronte · 61-69, F

@Adogslife Just a general question - not one about me. Let's face it. I'll never get anything resembling an apology from someone who has no compunction about using people for fun. But you're right - people who are living with hurt are the only ones who can decide if it means anything after the fact.