Would you ever be in a committed friend with benefits situation?

Sex, trust and fun, without the money, stress and expectations.

I think it'd be ideal.

I'm older, my kid is older, I don't need or want all the things people dream of together that get complicated.

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SUPERVlXEN · F

Yes, with a friend that meets my sexuality I see no reason why not.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@SUPERVlXEN I think it could be simple, beautiful, sexy and lasting with a partner who understood and wanted something similar.

SUPERVlXEN · F

@ScreamingFox
I'm not sure about the lasting part. There can always come something between you and them to my experience. But it can be simple and beautiful for as long as it lasts. There'll still be pain and feelings involved when it dies after several years, even without ever having any expectations of taking things further.