What are the reasons a married guy desperately looks for friends with benefits or extramaritals ?

Note the word -“desperately “.

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*His wife doesn't give him what he needs because he doesn't give (or understand) what his wife needs
*He's insecure and needs to constantly prove to himself he can score
*He doesn't love or value his wife.
*He's super bored and constantly looking for excitement.