Are you a likeable person?

I am not. I kinda understand, I know I'm different. I really don't care except it always bites me at work. I don't understand why. I am on time, don't call out, do my job efficiently and I'm a team player. Nobody ever tells me what I'm doing wrong, I just feel retaliated against. My bosses will suddenly treat me like I have the plague. My hours get cut. It's an overall feeling of not belonging. Bordering on rudeness directed at me. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. But I guess I have to find a different job now.

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DareToSayIT · 31-35, M

I’ve never been too concerned with being liked. My focus has always been on getting things done. Competence comes first.
We’re here to create impact for our families, our communities, and the people around us. And truth is, not everyone will be happy with every decision or action along the way.
If it’s someone I truly value, I take a step back, listen, and try to find common ground. If not, I keep moving and doing what needs to be done in that moment.