If you were manipulated to be obsessed/dependent on someone by that someone to the point where you don't think you were manipulated,

I mean who cares about justifying it.

Is it healthy? No. But you can forgive yourself for chasing after your abuser and having difficulties letting go its the most human response in the world.

It's like an addiction. Yeah you need to get clean but you also can't hate on yourself for relapses cause it'll just make you feel worse and more likely to fall into routinized behaviour.

Yeah....No

Mostly ciz its not good for YOU.

Stalking their media would only feed the obsessional tendencies. Itd give temporary satuation, but ultimately only reinforce the obsessional thoughtd more

The idea is to move on, DEprogram urself yeah?

What’s the aim or motivation for such behavior? Would it help you to move on, or more likely keep you under their control still?