What have you outgrown this year?

I have outgrown some of my resentment towards some people, to the degree that I do wish them well now.

I have , perhaps sadly, also outgrew the sense of community I used to have..the sense of obligation still exists but on its own, independent and self-sustaining. I do what I believe in for its own sake, irrespective of others destroying my work and whether it will be honored. And it doesn't offer me any connection nor belonging. It does offer me joy in some instances and that I am grateful for.

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Bexsy

I think I've outgrown/ gotten past my need to think the best of everyone and expect too much from people around me. Some are the way they are, and I have to accept it

BiasForAction · M

@Bexsy thank goodness those of us on here meet your high expectations. single. time.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Bexsy True, radical change anyways falls on too many shoulders unless it's self-chosen. Sometimes to free someone else, you have to free yourself first from them. There are many instances where letting go is the ultimate domino effect.