What is this?

Someone tells you they're trying harder to communicate, but they don't tell you anything and ignore you. Then they tell you they don't how to communicate. So you tell them you like to share their joy and pain, they can tell you anything anytime. Then they still don't share anything.

And they truly unable to communicate? Or are they unwilling?

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Blondily · F

I read thru the comments and know why they don't communicate, its because their hearts are hardened over time and they don't like confrontation. I was told by someone they are just thinking. Ok. So they ignore you hurting you even deeper. They know what they are doing too. Its payback. Thats my opinion.

ScreamingFox

@Blondily I feel like they knew what they were doing too. There was times they put in the effort, then suddenly they couldn't, then eventually it just got rude.

How hard is to share with the person you claim to love? How can you not know what to do when I'm telling you how we could do it together? How can you tell someone you're working on it and then communicate less?

I understand we all go through things, but how does someone expect to get through it together while avoiding you?

How am I your friend when I'm the only one you avoid?

I can't shake the feeling that it was all him trying to hurt me...

Blondily · F

@ScreamingFox Its shocking when someone you loved and who loved you back turns cold and uncaring out of nowhere. It feels inhuman to be treated with such coldness.
Sometimes theres a glimmer of hope when they reel you in then drop you off a cliff again leaving you confused with heartwrenching sadness.
I am so sorry you have been put thru the grinder. You don't deserve it. None of us do. 🤗