On his birthday..

He said don't give him anything, don't buy him anything. Not even a card. Don't even greet him. Why? Is there any reason you think he's like this?

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DrWatson · 70-79, M

If this is new behavior, is he suddenly feeling depressed about "getting old"?

GunFinger · F

@DrWatson no, not really.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

@GunFinger Then, can you simply ask him why he said these things?

GunFinger · F

@DrWatson i did. He said he just doesn't want to feel special, but then he'll say no one cares about him.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

@GunFinger Maybe get a gift and a card, and keep them in reserve. If he really wants no attention, fine. If, on the other hand, he complains about no one caring, pull them out and say "surprise!"

GunFinger · F

@DrWatson thank you.