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Ducky · 31-35, F
Everyone is judgmental to a point, but that’s just human nature. However, we do not have to let it define us and I’m thankful I was raised better than that. Yes, I have my first impressions of everybody and they tend to be unfavorable in one way or another, but I give them a chance most of the time. Keyword: most. Not all of the time. If my gut instinct is telling me to avoid someone because they positively seem like bad news, I avoid them and have nothing to do with them. If I end up being wrong, I feel like a real jerk, but I can live that. What I can’t live with is not trusting my instincts for the millionth time and letting someone in only to realize I never should have, because my instincts are usually right.
With that, I would say I’m fairly open-minded and non-judgmental, but I feel I have good instincts when it comes to people. Especially since I have been betrayed by so-called friends time and time again and almost want to give up altogether and dismiss everyone as being the same, for my own sake.
With that, I would say I’m fairly open-minded and non-judgmental, but I feel I have good instincts when it comes to people. Especially since I have been betrayed by so-called friends time and time again and almost want to give up altogether and dismiss everyone as being the same, for my own sake.