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Missing person???

Okay yall. This is gonna be a long one but bear with me. Any thoughts, opinions, suggestions, advice and help would be appreciated……

so let’s go back to Tuesday night November 22. The last day I spoke to my boyfriend.

We were having a casual conversation about work opportunities and I told him I may not take it. He replies with “why??” So I replied back explaining….. after that I never heard from him again…...

Initially I thought he passed out early on me and I got frustrated since it was kind of an important convo for me. But the morning came.

No text.

We work at the same job…so I thought he called out of work and was sleeping in…..but noon came and I know he doesn’t sleep in that late….

.I also remembered that he had a VERY important interview for a position he’s been FIGHTING tooth and nail to get…..he was so incredibly happy when they called him for the interview that he almost cried…..he didn’t want to miss that And I KNOW he wouldn’t have missed that opportunity…..he prepared so much for that…..

But he didn’t show up….


So It’s been 2, almost 3 weeks. He hasn’t shown up to work for that duration of time. Still isn’t. Which is not like him.

I’m starting to have MULTIPLE coworkers ask me where he is but I’m just as clueless as them.

My text messages aren’t delivering.
When I call- it goes immediately to voicemail.

Our other coworkers are having the same issue getting a hold of him…..

The phone is shut off.

His supervisor said that his father reached out but didn’t give enough information.

My friend and I took him a care package and dad said he was out. He questioned how we knew him, what the package was for, etc. (but mind you- I haven’t met his parents before) and that He’ll give the package to him when he returns.

The next day my roommate and I stopped by and she spoke in Spanish with his dad and told him that I was really worried about him and what’s happening. This isn’t like him. They said “he went on a little vacation out of the country but should be back soon.” And the mom took my name and number down saying they’ll let him know I’m trying to get a hold of him.

I haven’t heard anything…..I don’t think the parents are telling the truth. If he had anyway of contacting anyone- wouldn’t he reach out to let us know he’s okay and not DEAD??? He would not do this it ISN’T like him.

I called hospitals, did an inmate search to see if he’s been arrested but nothing.

Nothing……

He just disappeared mid conversation.

No explanation. Not showing up at work. Parents are being weird about it and to be honest- I think they’re lying about some things. Phone is off.

What could possibly be happening??? And why are they being so hush hush about everything??? And why is it just him that’s gone? No one else in his household??

I have so many questions. I’m so confused and worried about him and it gives me anxiety. Am I ever gonna even see him again?? Who just disappears like that with no word or warning??? and ESPECIALLY not say anything to your girl???
To where absolutely NO ONE can get ahold of them??? This isn’t like him and I fear something may have happened. None of it makes sense to me at all. I have so many mixed emotions about everything now. I don’t even know whether or not I’m gonna see him again??????
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NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
Without any type of evidence I would almost think he had a mental health crisis. If he was locked up in observation he wouldnt have access probably to his phone or be aloud outside access. You could always call the police and ask for a welfare check on him and tell them what you told us here.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@NeuroticByNature honestly I have considered this as well. He’s had a VERY interesting and stressful year…..I know he’s been depressed…..but he’s the type to brush it off and not wanna talk about it. He downplays everything and doesn’t let me in so I never know what’s going on…..it just happened so randomly overnight it’s just confusing.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@NeuroticByNature I’ve considered this too but do you know what the max time is that they would keep a person in observation like that??? It’s been almost a month now….next week will be a month since he disappeared. I thought maybe he had some kind of episode and got 5150’d or something but I read they only keep you for 72 hours. At least in California i think…I also called our closest psychiatric hospital for what it was worth but they’re completely unable to give that Information. Kaiser was actually able to take his last name and let me know if he had been there. But he had not.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@Sb356 theres any number of reasons he would require an extended stay. Im in a medical care career though so I dont know.