Do you consider “looking” to be cheating?
If not then why? If so then why? I wanna hear your reasoning
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Ananke · 26-30, F
Well it depends. Is he actively trying to look at women as in browsing through model's instagram pages and liking them etc. Bc to me that is not necessarily full blown cheating but it is disrespectful and i would not stay w a guy like that.
If he just happens to notice some girl is attractive there's no problem. We can't control who we find attractive and can't just shut that and our thoughts off even if we are with someone we love very much. I adore my husband and would never ever cheat on him but yes sometimes I see guys in public and go "dang." But that's the extent of it. He says he is the same way, it's like you notice someone is attractive, but then you go "but my partner is way better and I love them" and just shrug it off.
I think to be really considered cheating action has to be taken, but you can do things that are disrespectful in a relationship too like the example I gave earlier and also things like watching porn if you havent both agreed you feel ok with that in the relationship.
If he just happens to notice some girl is attractive there's no problem. We can't control who we find attractive and can't just shut that and our thoughts off even if we are with someone we love very much. I adore my husband and would never ever cheat on him but yes sometimes I see guys in public and go "dang." But that's the extent of it. He says he is the same way, it's like you notice someone is attractive, but then you go "but my partner is way better and I love them" and just shrug it off.
I think to be really considered cheating action has to be taken, but you can do things that are disrespectful in a relationship too like the example I gave earlier and also things like watching porn if you havent both agreed you feel ok with that in the relationship.