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Do you consider “looking” to be cheating?

If not then why? If so then why? I wanna hear your reasoning
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4meAndyou · F
Really OBVIOUS "looking", or, as I call it, ogling, is not cheating...but when he or she does it in front of you, or when he or she comes home and TELLS you about almost wrecking the car because he or she saw someone really hot and nearly drove off the road...your S.O. is just a major, major a-hole, and for some reason WANTS to make you feel badly.

Other than that, most of us can't help looking at someone who is really hot. Those of us who are trying really hard to be kind and loving toward our S.O.'s try not to be obvious.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
4meAndyou · F
@Degbeme Are you feeling...HOT? 🤣🤣🤣
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@4meAndyou I wish. Too damn cold and damp here. 🥶
4meAndyou · F
@Degbeme You should move onto the top floors of my apartment building...I usually open the sliding doors to cool off when it is about 35F outside, and don't need to turn on my heat ALL winter.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@4meAndyou Oh I love the heat. 🥰
4meAndyou · F
@Degbeme So do my downstairs neighbors! 🤣🤣🤣 ALL their heat comes right up here through the closed heating unit. Doesn't matter WHAT I do...I can't cool off at times.