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SW-User
If your kids are young then why explain something they don’t even understand.
GunFinger · F
@SW-User that's my point. I mean she's not terminal too. She's been back and forth to hospital and their home for months now.
SW-User
@GunFinger maybe have a talk with him and give him your opinion. They don’t need this kind of information. It might actually make them confused and upset. Anyway, I hope all goes well.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Unless your kids were close to her there is no reason to make a big deal about it
Is hubby close to her
Is hubby close to her
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@GunFinger you married a blockhead
Poppies · 61-69, F
Maybe he seldom has big news to share and thought he'd make the most of it?
Maybe he felt that in the ideal family, people would care about things like this?
Maybe he felt that in the ideal family, people would care about things like this?
Carissimi · F
It’s his aunt who he may love, so depending on the kid’s ages, it seems appropriate. It is their great aunt who they may care for too.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Depends on how old the children are, sounds like he is needing emotional support
@nedkelly That's a possibility, too...
Degbeme · 70-79, M
This makes no sense at all. Why would he tell them that?
What's his relationship with his aunt like???
GunFinger · F
@HootyTheNightOwl his aunt lives with his mum. She was taken to hospital on an ambulance 2 days ago and is still there. His mum rang and said his aunt is saying at the hospital that she wants to die.
Gusman · 61-69, M
Not necessary to tell them.
I wonder why he thought it was necessary?
I wonder why he thought it was necessary?
antonioioio · 70-79, M
Have you decused the matter with your husband?
GunFinger · F
@antonioioio I have.
TexChik · F
Nope he should have discussed it with you first
antonioioio · 70-79, M
I do agree with you about it being necessary
SW-User
Maybe he thought it was the right thing to do
SW-User
Thats strange that he would do that!!
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
It might mean something to him.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
haha no that's stoopid, but its not like the kids will care
empanadas · 31-35, M
It probably means a lot to him
MethDozer · M
Seems like the right thing to do.