Asking for a friend...

i am sure not one to be able to speak on how someone should feel, but i can offer perspectives.

consider the ring like the man, he himself was with a woman for a year, and she decided he wasn't the one, even though he was willing to be hers.

he then found someone who appreciated him in all the ways the first one didn't.
and granted it took a while but he became a new person, and with that came a new ring.


now opinion wise i think he should have shared this a little sooner, but we all have our insecurities and reasons for delaying things.

there's no need for her to feel humiliated, if i pick a door in some gameshow that another prior to me passed up i get to feel lucky....at least in the picking sense.


But i'd say the husband owes her an apology, or even just to share his explanation. the past cant be changed, only our perspectives on it.

my only advice for you is be there for your friend, she's going through something and she needs someone to hear her, to see her, because without that were left alone to our own solitude wondering if it's all in our heads.