Am I bi if....

My whole life I've found guys attractive and had crushes on guys, dated guys, etc. I do find girls attractive and I think maybe have had mini-crushes on girls before but never full blown ones maybe because I repressed it or was in denial. Also the thought of eating someone out is really repulsive to me and I don't find vaginas appealing at all. 🤔

I really dunno what's up with my sexuality.

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QueenandCrown · 41-45, F

Attractions isn't always about sexuality. Love isn't always about sex. Feelings can not always be boxed in little neat definitions.
When I was younger I used to wonder about sexuality but now I personally don't give it much thought. My sexuality plays such a small percentage of who I am as a whole being.

JustGoneNow

@QueenandCrown this. So much this.

walabby · M

I wouldn't worry about it. Just do what works for you...

JustGoneNow

It’s not an either or and more of a sliding scale. You can be mostly straight but a bit heteroflexible. You can be Bi but far more attracted to guys or anywhere inbetween. Orientation is complicated and changes.

https://similarworlds.com/7010257-I-Am-a-Lesbian/3761800-My-journey-has-been-long-unclear-and-often-very

Thespis · M

@JustGoneNow Well, this sums up what I was going to say. I consider myself a straight male, because I've never really been sexually attracted to another male. However, there have certainly been times I've seen another guy and just thought DAMN. He is very good looking.

JustGoneNow

@Thespis Exactly. I thought to be lesbian, the thought of a guy needed to repulse me and it doesn’t. It just doesn’t turn me on... at all. Took me many years to figure out that not all lesbians are the same and that I am just gay, and it’s okay.

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Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

Once you stop with labels you’ll feel better. Bisexuality in some degree is normal.

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