I Have a Question

I often wonder why I'm so depressed and anxious. Is it the life I lead?, I don't drink and I don't smoke and to be quite honest I don't even want to. I don't have friends anymore, and even the very few I do don't even make the effort with me, even though I try my best. It's easy to tell a person how much you care about them over social media but do they really?. I've lost my college place and everything seems to be going horribly wrong for me. I'm a good person, and I don't feel that I deserve all this. I just feel so alone.

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SW-User

Yeah I have been through what you are going now and to be honest, after 10 years it's still the same. People who say they are friends but really don't try or hang out with me. Parents that don't support. Loneliness that eats us and makes us depressed. Then there will be that.. when you fail no one to lend a hand to get you out.

We need friends and people who care dear. You are still young.
Try to make good friends and be there for them even if they don't make effort. Call them out and hang out with them. Etc.

Do your best. Take care.

LachrymoseLamer · 51-55, M

Your turn will come. Happiness and success are waiting for you! :)

missialeri98 · 22-25, F

I hope so :)

Iamofnothing · 22-25, M

I was in a similar place last year (and still sort of am right now). I'd say go check in with your doctor and see if you have any brain chemical imbalance

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

It's going to get better. .I'll sell my jam jars,buy a karaoke machine, go on tour singing Tom Jones hits

missialeri98 · 22-25, F

Haha!, oh it's cold outside!!. That song will be on with Christmas coming now lol

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

@missialeri98: I love that song!! I'll do Toms part!

twistermind · 51-55, F

Did you feel always like that?

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twistermind · 51-55, F

@missialeri98: well, what?

missialeri98 · 22-25, F

Yes.

twistermind · 51-55, F

@missialeri98: I felt like you at your age. It sometimes due partly to your own character and partly to something that you need to solve.
I made the worst choice at 17, I isolated myself for years.
You have all the best qualities in my opinion, you said you are a good person so don't let the world misses the opportunity to have you.
Find your way, your own interests. The things you enjoy. No matter if they are different to the ones your peers usually do.
You will find people who have common things with you.
Talk with your school counselor. Many times, talking with a person about the topic can turn a light on.

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

its alright , it all looks dark right now but trust you gonna get over it .. Its good you are aware about it

billstickers · 36-40, M

Have you family support

missialeri98 · 22-25, F

Nope

billstickers · 36-40, M

sorry to hear that but dont give up be a winner not a whiner xx

lesbian4sex · 31-35, F

feeling same

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you can chat with me and I can give you comfort, solace and support.

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