I Have a Question

When u r texting with someone on here and all of a sudden they stop texting for about 10 to 15 minutes. Then they text u and u start the conversation up again, but then they're gone yet again. Is that acceptable or rude behavior?

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Phire1 · 51-55, F

This one guy I was chatting with for a couple of mths eventually said to me in a chat, "pause" then he'd say something... then say, "double pause".... then he'd say something else... so on... it was weird! Like he was counting the SECONDS to my replies. wtf?

So anyhow, lol.... No, it's not rude. As some have said, people have lives as well as other friends, etc., work, so on.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I’m laughing cause it’s true...people are so weird! @Phire1

Phire1 · 51-55, F

@Keepitsimple Lol - I mean, if it goes on for days, weeks, months... then yeah, that's something to be concerned about in whatever way

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Nah...first time I get that I stop talking to them. I’m not going to deal with people like that. Somebody once told me “get back here” and I blocked them. That’s a little too crazy for me. @Phire1

Phire1 · 51-55, F

@Keepitsimple Eh, you know what I mean

Phire1 · 51-55, F

@Keepitsimple It's taken me quite a while to get back to people on here because I'm not on here that much, is all

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@Phire1 Thats just the chance you take when talking to people here. Some people just pop on every once in a while.

Phire1 · 51-55, F

@Keepitsimple Yep.
And this site is not my 'go-to' site.
It's not that I don't care about people here

DamnFeelz · 36-40, F

Agreed. I don’t deal with high maintenance people in real life and I definitely don’t feel like dealing with them here lol @Keepitsimple