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Do you think a woman should let a man grope her in a crowded bus? Explain your opinions please,because its an important issue for me
victoriavipper · 31-35, F
in the beggining it wasnt good ! but then i felt helpless and i realised tha i couldn't react alone .so i let it happen and even though i would like to resist my body surrendered to that guy :/ it wasnt difficult as i hand two fingers inside me,a palm to my cheeks and my boobs were pressed to the glass of the doors! it wasnt my fault,was it? :/ :/ :/ :/
victoriavipper · 31-35, F
even though i am beautiful (as others have said,not me ) i am quite submissive :/ but i hope to react in the future to something like that
victoriavipper · 31-35, F
the truth is that i liked it a bit :/ :/ :/ :/ but i am generally difficult with the men and have said many ''no '' in the past.so it was too annoying that someone could have my ass in his hand so easy! :? :'( but i didnt react....
HankStone · 61-69, M
Objectively she shouldn't let him do it. What he's doing is wrong, dirty and invasive, and she should speak up and say something to stop it. He's treating her as nothing more than an object. And by not saying anything, she's confirming that to him.

But a lot of women get embarrassed in these situations and freeze up. They don't want anyone to know. They're confused. They don't know who the man is, and they're afraid to accuse the wrong person, so they just stand there and take it. And possibly, even though it's weird, they're enjoying, which makes them feel like part of a dirty little conspiracy.
Serenitree · F
No. Not grope, not fondle, not rub up against, not even breathe on her. Say it in a loud voice. Make sure people around you know what he is doing. Those kinds of men count on you being too embarrassed to say anything. Change their perception. Be loud.
Nope fight back! If you don't he will think your enjoying it! Just be strong and stern and lash outnif necessary... Unless it is a turn on of course....
SW-User
Not sure why you're asking. If she wants it -why not, if she gets groped without wanting it, the man doing it should be shamed.
CoolDaddy · 51-55, M
Only consensually. Unsolicited and intentionally touching another person unwelcomely is wrong.
hosam88 · 31-35, M
Some women want to be groped and they like it iven if they show some umsatesfaction
kaf9292 · 80-89, M
"Let" is not the way to go. Anyone should ask permission first. Any public place is not an appropriate location for an activity that is overtly sexual in nature. Such activities should be allowed with consent in a private setting such as your house or in a location such as a swingers club where it would be commonplace.
SW-User
No, it wasn't your fault and the fact you got a physical reaction on what happened to you isn't strange neither, it hasn't anything to do with if you wanted it ore not. But I guess this fact did confuse you and you feel guilty about your physical reaction, just don't, IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT!
bonjohn · 31-35, M
i think that you are a dirty little girl who liked that situation a lot!you love that someone groped you perfect ass and you took it like confirmation that you are a whore :P :P ia am sure you will let it happen the next time surely!if i were that guy i would have make you to make a blowjob too ;)
SW-User
It's a bus ride- not an ass ride.
SoloSenior · 80-89, M
I think in any law book this is a crime. Sexual assault certainly, and even up to rape if there is any form of penetration, digital or penile.

Like the wise man said, "there is a time and place for everything".
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
I think a man shouldn't even try it. We in society put way to much on the the idea that a woman needs to "prove it" that women are tentative to say anything. Guys need to step up and be more respectful and protective of women
SW-User
No, it's a direct attack on woman, the very few who would like it have to deal with the fact it's not tolerated because to most other woman it's a very horrible rape experience.
HankStone · 61-69, M
You won't react next time, either. You were a dirty girl who liked it too much and won't get over your tendency to freeze and just let him take what he wants.
HankStone · 61-69, M
If you had really wanted to resist, you would have. You liked being helpless when you shouldn't have, so you let the guy turn you into a toy. So yes, it was your fault.
GenesisWingman · 36-40, M
No because, even when you are a very hot women, this doesn't mean that you must be groped! Such a guy don't have manners or is, maybe, a perverted one!
Stefanv · 56-60, M
Only if it is her thing and she gets a kick out of it... Otherwise move away quickly and don't let someone continue unless you are really sure it is what you want...
sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M
I don't see any possible reasonable answer to this other than no. Whyever should a woman let herself be groped by a stranger, from the context?
pucker8551 · 70-79, M
no if it is something you don't want but yes if is something you enjoy
with that fine looking ass of yours it would be hard to resist
SW-User
Just fight them next time, even if you're submissive, it doesn't mean you're unwanted a toy to all kind of strangers.
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Jon2403 · 61-69, M
Maybe at some time that you may think of taking up the martial arts so you can have control
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
Depends.. Does she want it? Then be discreet. She doesn't want it? Someone kick this guys ass
Jon2403 · 61-69, M
no! a man should never grope a woman of a bus. or anywhere. because its a sign of disrespect
GoneRogue · 51-55, M
No of course not! No one should touch you without your consent.
wheels1972 · M
if she wants him too
Sunshine · 26-30, F
Nope, not ever
Polcatt77 · 51-55, M
I wouldn't do it but I could see how it might be a fantasy of some women ! I'd like to hear more of your story if you want to email me I'd chat about it !
olderguy2016 · 70-79, M
nobody has right to grope you in crowded bus. you must have crushed his balls.
SW-User
Th question is, Victoria, would you let it happen again?
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vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
How much did it turn you on Victoria
Polcatt77 · 51-55, M
I knew you liked it naughty girl 👍😈
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
depends on what the women wants
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
has it happened to you?
SoulAsylum · 31-35, M
Get a can of pepper spray.
Fawema · 51-55, C
No not at all
SoloSenior · 80-89, M

 
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