I Have a Question

How can i make some friends when i dont have any? ive lived in this place for almost 5 yrs and cant so much as have anyone to have a cup of coffee with, i hate it, none of the other places were like that, even in church i never have anyone to sit with, and yes i shower, they barely talk to me, if i switch churches i just get the same thing somewhere else, ive thought of asking them but i dont want to force them if they dont want to , thought of getting a pet except im out of work, any suggestions? its driving me nuts, ive thought of moving away