I Have a Question

I have been talking to someone I meet on a dating site...we have been talking for 4 weeks now...everyday one or twice a day sometimes more. (Texting) few phone calls. I have been told its early in the relationship so if I don't hear from him for a day or two or three its no big deal. We haven't meet yet but have tried. I think we get along well.
So is it no big deal?

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aldnazmeister · 56-60, M

Although I do agree with Luna, it is no big deal. Luna said, "If a man is really into you, then he makes contact everyday." A man may not be vested to that degree yet based off of just phone calls and text messages. There can be a connection; and yes, it may be easy to send a text saying, "I hope you have a great day," but what happens if you try to have a conversation and the man does not respond? What then, do you get mad at him?
Until you meet, and decide to continue to see each other, do not hold it against him for going a day or two without contacting you. It is like Carissimi said, are you in a relationship? If not, no one is under any obligation to contact the other person daily. If he does get back with you after a day or two, then you can start thinking he may want to get to know you better and meet with you.