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I Have a Question

I have been talking to someone I meet on a dating site...we have been talking for 4 weeks now...everyday one or twice a day sometimes more. (Texting) few phone calls. I have been told its early in the relationship so if I don't hear from him for a day or two or three its no big deal. We haven't meet yet but have tried. I think we get along well.
So is it no big deal?
SW-User
I think if a man is really into you then he makes contact everyday. And vice versa . Just my opinion
aldnazmeister · 56-60, M
Although I do agree with Luna, it is no big deal. Luna said, "If a man is really into you, then he makes contact everyday." A man may not be vested to that degree yet based off of just phone calls and text messages. There can be a connection; and yes, it may be easy to send a text saying, "I hope you have a great day," but what happens if you try to have a conversation and the man does not respond? What then, do you get mad at him?
Until you meet, and decide to continue to see each other, do not hold it against him for going a day or two without contacting you. It is like Carissimi said, are you in a relationship? If not, no one is under any obligation to contact the other person daily. If he does get back with you after a day or two, then you can start thinking he may want to get to know you better and meet with you.
Have tried? I don't understand.
I think people that really want to meet could make that possible.
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
Aldnazmeister thanks for your perspective...it does make sense. Thanks
aldnazmeister · 56-60, M
You are welcome Gigi. I know men and women think differently on many things; so I was just trying to provide a perspective from a man's side. At least in my opinion, that is how I would handle things; and yes I am single. Open and honest communication is a must, but like I said, you can not hold someone to the fire until you are in a relationship.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
What has stopped you from meeting?
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
Foolishluna that's what I think...I just thought maybe I was wrong..its been so long since I dated.

Carissmi. He had a family emergency with his father and was at the hospital with him. We are going to try again at least I hope we are.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I also agree with Luna. You say it's early in the relationship, but are you actually in a relationship, if you haven't started dating yet?
SW-User
Good luck GiGi.. It's a crazy world out there and I think sometime the Internet is great and sometime ... Ugh.. What ever happen to meeting the guy at the grocery store ... Hugs💗
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
So are you saying its no big deal then until after we actually meet?

 
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