I Have a Question For Married Men

There is such thing as "you men " And i know alot of them Father ,brothers,uncles,brother in laws ,friends,nephews ,friends of my sons.. You all think alike .it's funny all ages and all the same..Your right I am pissed we dont call eachother .I dont call him ,he calls me .I dont text him first ,he text me first .I am not blaming Men .It is the affair ,in which we made promises together just like any other relationship ..Why i am so mad is cause he said he will never shut me out ,and he DID . SO his word is crap to me right now .
I love the different opinions people are writing .I am going to defend my self ,bottom line is I will do what I want ,but wanted so input thats all