I Have a Question For Married Men
Is it bad of me to wanna out a married man to him wife ?
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Northwest · M
@DNJ4EVER: There is no such thing as "you men". You can only judge based on the men you know. As far as affairs are concerned, two two parties involved are equally responsible for the affair. Your marital status matters very little when enter into an affair.
In addition, and in a world, where no real coercion is used, both parties freely entered into the affair.
You're pissed off because he's not returning your call, when you thought that he was your friend, confidant, and lover. His wife probably thought that same when she married him.
Instead of blaming men, why don't you blame the obvious: cheating. When you have a relationship with a cheater, it's illogical to think that, sooner or later, you will be in the same spot his wife is in today.
Of course you're free to do whatever you want. The bottom line though, is that the status of the marriage is irrelevant. You own 50% of the responsibility for this affair. He owns the other 50%. His wife owns 0%. You want to make her 1/3 owner of the fallout.
As to taking care of men, why did you do it? Isn't he capable of taking care of himself? Partners in a relationship take care of each other and do not take advantage of each other.
In addition, and in a world, where no real coercion is used, both parties freely entered into the affair.
You're pissed off because he's not returning your call, when you thought that he was your friend, confidant, and lover. His wife probably thought that same when she married him.
Instead of blaming men, why don't you blame the obvious: cheating. When you have a relationship with a cheater, it's illogical to think that, sooner or later, you will be in the same spot his wife is in today.
Of course you're free to do whatever you want. The bottom line though, is that the status of the marriage is irrelevant. You own 50% of the responsibility for this affair. He owns the other 50%. His wife owns 0%. You want to make her 1/3 owner of the fallout.
As to taking care of men, why did you do it? Isn't he capable of taking care of himself? Partners in a relationship take care of each other and do not take advantage of each other.