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Northwest · M
@DNJ4EVER: These are things you should be telling him. His wife did not ask for this, and was not party to it. You are the only two parties to it. if you tell her, she's going to be hurt. Will that satisfy you?
No matter how the affair happened, if you tell her, your only objective is revenge, or you hope that when his marriage is destroyed, he will come running to you. That's not going to happen. Accept that this is a mistake and move on.
No matter how the affair happened, if you tell her, your only objective is revenge, or you hope that when his marriage is destroyed, he will come running to you. That's not going to happen. Accept that this is a mistake and move on.